I know this is my second post today (and I did this yesterday), but there is something I really need to rant about and I can't really do it anywhere but here.
If there's one thing that annoys the crap outta me, it's a stupid girl. A stupid, STUPID girl. Especially one that does not see what scum bag she's dating and that she deserves someone a hundred times better than that.
For example: If your boyfriend not only cheats on you with one of your closest friends, but also gives you a sexually transmitted disease, he is NOT the right guy for you. I don't care what he says, he will do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. When that happens, you let go. You walk away and you find someone who will not cheat on you, who will not hurt you, who will realize that you are the only girl he needs in his life. If a guy really loves you the way he says he does, he will not hurt you. And if he does otherwise, I'm sorry, you are stupid to continue that relationship.
I love my boyfriend with all of my being. But if I found out that he cheated on me, or did something shady that would hurt me, I am smart enough to know I have to walk away from that. Ladies, use your head. God did not just give you hips and breasts, he gave you a BRAIN. Do not be stupid enough to believe that a guy who hurt you once will not do it again. Guys like that are dogs and do not deserve for you to even look at them! If your excuse is that "you love him" you are lying to yourself. How can you possibly love something that hurts you? That sounds absurd to me.
So, please, ladies. Let's be smart here. Let's stop being so dependent on guys who hurt us. Let's be independent and show ourselves we can be strong without guys who are pigs, and will continue to be strong when the right guy comes along.
As a girl with experience with textbook assholes, I write this only to help open eyes of girls who are confused.

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